Deciding that you're ready to date a cougar is the first step into a new dating arena. The rules are pretty much the same as dating younger chicks, but there are a lot of subtle differences that we'll try to help you with in this short but sweet web guide.
Where to find a cougar date?
So you're ready to date a cougar but where are you going to find her? Sure, you see potential cougars everywhere, on the subway, in the supermarket, on the bus, at the mall - but are they really cougars? Or are they just hot older chicks with angry husbands waiting to kick your ass?
If you're a fearless cougar hunter please go ahead and take your chances by approaching the next hot older woman you see in public. It's a risky business though and you're on your own because this guide into how to date a cougar steers clear of such unreliable methods.
Here we recommend the two proven places to meet a cougar woman: 1). the bar and 2). online dating sites.
Finding a cougar to date in a bar should be fairly straightforward. More and more cougars are heading into bars and clubs to check out the young cougarbait on offer. So go find them, and when you do, be confident, be cool and remember the reason most cougars are looking for a younger man is because they're bored of the slipper wearing, couch potato guys of their own age. That's why you have to exude energy, fun and sexual appetite if you want to secure a date with a cougar in a bar.
Online dating is also a great tool in your quest to date a cougar. The benefit of online dating is that you get to sound out your cougar for a while first by swapping messages and maybe even photos. You can really get an idea of what your cougar woman is looking for and make sure that if you do go on a date with her, you're likely to be on the same wavelength. The drawback of course is that you don't know how realistic the photos of your cougar really are. You want an older woman but you don't want a shrivelled up prune, right? So there's a balance to be struck and when you date a cougar based on pictures alone you take a chance. But then again, nothing ventured, nothing gained!
Securing your date with a cougar
When you're first talking to your cougar (either online or in the 'real world') it pays to remember that no two cougars are the same. Just like girls in their 20s, cougar women vary enormously in what they are looking for from a man.
Some may want a boyfriend - possibly a fit young guy to have on her arm. Now consider...are you ready to be a trophy boytoy? If so then this may be the cougar for you, and the way to secure a date with this kind of cougar is to demonstrate you have long term potential as boyfriend material. Before you approach your target cougar, think about possible ways you can demonstrate value as a potential boyfriend - namely focus on your conversation topics and make sure you stay away from dumbass behavior like discussing your favorite football team. Show that you've got brains as well as youth on your side and you have a much better chance of securing your date with a cougar.
On the other hand, there are a whole bunch of cougars out there who are simply after a good time with a younger guy - a chance to relive their youth and inject some fun back into their lives after 20 years married to a boring old fart. Most guys are looking to date a cougar like this - a hot older chick who's a bit of a good time girl at heart and wants to have some fun with a capital F. The key to bagging your cougar date in this scenario is to keep it light. Avoid the classic serious topics such as religion and politics. Instead talk about some fun things you've been doing lately and especially if they happen to be active sports like surfing, snowboarding or skating. They'll love the idea that you're a fit young guy who knows how to enjoy himself.
One final piece of advice when it comes to getting your date with a cougar - don't ruin the vibe by talking about the age gap like it's some kind of sexual fantasy that you want to explore. Lines like 'yeah, I've always wanted to go with an older babe' are pretty much guaranteed to put you out of the game. Unless of course you have the skill to deliver the line with the right level of ironic humor and sexiness that gets their palms (or is that paws?) sweating.
Where to take a cougar on your first date
There's no big secret to this one. For a first date, it's always a safe bet to go for either a drink or a meal. If you choose to date a cougar who you met online and therefore haven't spoken to much (if at all) it's a good idea to take her to a bar for your first date. You don't want to commit to a whole two or three hour meal with a much older woman if you haven't seen her in person. The sad fact is that she may not look much like her photo, and in that case your dinner date could be one of the most awkward nights of your young life. So go instead to a quiet bar where you can get to know her properly, rather than to a packed out club where you have to shout to be heard. And remember to avoid bars that your friends may be at - that could be a major distraction to you and your cougar.
If you do opt for a dinner date, remember to watch your table manners! Cougar women may be hot mature chicks looking for fun, but they also grew up in an age where manners were emphasised more, so watch your elbows on the table, talking with your mouth full, and of course it's best to avoid the spaghetti.
Finally, just because she's older and probably has more money (thanks to her excellent divorce lawyer) never assume your cougar date should pay for the meal. If she really insists, let her pay but always be first to get the wallet out and show that you want her for who she is (body and mind) not what she can do for you. Play it right and your date with a cougar could turn into a night you'll remember for a long time to come.
I couldn't have said it better myself...;-)
Posted by: | 05/27/2008 at 03:26 AM
OMG,
Internet dating sites should make this article required reading for the cougar prey members. I can't tell you how many young studs with great potential, I've talked to who just don't get it, that unlike most other dating, cougar dating is not "all about them" getting their rocks off, and fulfilling their fantasies. Cougar dating is about reciprocity, quid pro quo, and both parties getting their needs taken care of. I can't tell you how many times I've gotten excited in anticipation and been bored to tears listening to them go on about sports, talk about themselves, brag about their sexual prowess, and reveal their idealistic naivete about politics & religion. Cougar hunting requires a degree of finesse and not all young men have developed this. Cougars be advised, there are many using this new, popular dating type as an excuse to forego the normal polite protocol of regular dating, the effort it requires, and get laid on the cheap. It's an excuse that allows them to be a rude, crude, mannerless pigs. On the other hand, I've been refreshed and delighted by some of the young men I've met, a twenty something marine with a delicious tall, lean deer rifle body, who's been to war and should be jaded, but somehow retains his innocence about women. He's an uncomplicated diamond in the rough, completely unaware of his charms, and totally disarmed when I flirt with him in an erotic, playful way. He's just so cute I could eat him up. Then there's the 30 something Russian Art Director, who has a degree in biochemistry. English is his second language, but he's quite adept at holding an intellectual conversation in it. This guy is so smart, knowledgeable, cultured, subtle, refined, polite, and gentlemanly that his degree of polish could probably bring on an a climax. Both of these men, though polar opposites, inspire a level of arousal in me, that I haven't felt since my teens.
Posted by: Crystal W. | 06/07/2008 at 06:13 PM
I am involved with a man 17 years younger than myself. He attented high school with my children! I am really having an issue with the age thing. It doesn't seem to bother him and honestly it didn't bother me until we began having sex. Don't get me wrong the sex is great, but I feel terrible after he leaves. I'm not sure where to go from here.
On one hand I can't stop thinking about how wonderful he is and on the other hand I think I'm nuts! Help!
To make things worse my children have NO idea and will probably never be able to look at me again when they do find out.
I'm not ready to give this relationship up, but I'm also not ready for it to develope into something more serious.
Any suggestions??
Posted by: S. | 08/09/2008 at 03:21 AM
Very nice article... I enjoyed it very much!
Posted by: Cougar Beauty Secrets | 08/20/2008 at 12:52 AM
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Posted by: Carmen | 08/20/2008 at 11:00 PM
Cougar hunting requires a degree of finesse and not all young men have developed this. Cougars be advised, there are many using this new, popular dating type as an excuse to forego the normal polite protocol of regular dating, the effort it requires, and get laid on the cheap
Posted by: date a cougar | 08/27/2008 at 05:05 AM
Great article. I am 52 dating a man 32 for the last 2 years. He is college educated, articulate, adorable and able to be in a great 50/50 attention/interests relationship. We met through a mutual interest and while the age concerned us at first now, we never even think about it. We live together now and have no intention of parting ways. I say go for it!
Posted by: Barbara | 10/30/2008 at 08:13 PM
I started flirting with a young 40, married with 6 kids...he wasn't enjoying his marriage at all, but I found that I thought about him a lot. We would see each other occasionally, TXTm talk on the phone, and have lunch...so far so good..he knew the rules, that he was a want more than a need. All was well then he started behaving like a boy. Not TXTing back, no answers, no calls...I decided big boys are usually easier and at least display better manners. He has now been deleted from my cell phone.
Posted by: Lori | 11/05/2008 at 05:32 PM
Very interesting article. I enjoyed reading it and picked up alot of tips.
Posted by: Daryl Dorsey | 02/07/2009 at 07:28 AM
i liked your artical and look forward to using this info on my next date
Posted by: ryan | 04/08/2009 at 08:08 AM
Hi my name is ringo and i'm looking for a cougar, i'm 24 and i need an older woman who is going to show me the ropes. Please send me a photo and details of your measurements
Posted by: Ringo | 04/21/2009 at 02:59 AM
im a 29 yr old white male looking for a cougar.im outgoing up for anything.im nt your everyday young man.i own a company,no kids or even been marryed.
Posted by: nathan | 08/26/2009 at 07:31 AM
I am a 24 year old guy and this is a very educating as well as useful article. Thank you for sharing it.
cheers
Posted by: JZ | 10/03/2009 at 05:28 AM
so matured!
Posted by: krishna | 10/03/2009 at 04:35 PM
Intellect and confidance are key in the realm.. I am dating a 45 year young beautiful woman right now.. I'm 23 and she I definatly what I've been looking for.. her daughter is my age and that makes my cougar a little uncomfortable.. but I keep my head hi and my conversation juicy.... that's it... you have to really know what your doing especially when dealing with a cougar... they know more than you.. you just have to seem to know more than her
Posted by: bube | 11/03/2009 at 05:34 PM
Im 23 and Im take this girl out that is 29 would she be considered a Cougar?
Posted by: Tim Lawson | 11/17/2009 at 07:38 AM
Great article! I have a love for cougars at 17 yrs old and this may just be the push i need to go out there , find one, and talk to her
Posted by: Kitkat | 11/17/2009 at 02:42 PM
great article loved it !!!!
Posted by: ZRodriguez | 12/13/2009 at 01:17 PM
any cougars in pasadena area?
Posted by: stan | 12/22/2009 at 03:10 AM
im 30 and looking for older lady in pasadena, CA area. i hope u exist?. my email is front6850@yahoo.com
Posted by: stan | 12/22/2009 at 03:11 AM
I hope this trend continues!
Posted by: Michelle Rawling | 12/29/2009 at 01:31 AM
just remember all cougars are not sugar mamma too. where did they get that term. other side to it could be cougar looking for young man with money.
Posted by: joy | 01/10/2010 at 10:04 AM
HAHA
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Posted by: Ssss | 01/15/2010 at 09:47 PM
searching for friendship
Posted by: fatjoulol | 02/09/2010 at 12:32 AM
I was at a local bar this past New Year's Eve when a gorgeous, tall, lean, blonde young man came up to me, stared into my eyes, and said, "You are beautiful." I thanked him, turned away to watch the band, and when I turned around he was still there and still staring. We started talking, and it wasn't long before I waltzed out the door with him at closing time. Mind-blowing night, all night. But I was boss, and he was my pupil, and a willing pupil he was...(BTW, I'm 47 and divorced) If he hadn't been so innocently confident there is no way I would have gone home with him. So to all of you young hunters out there: be yourself, but be aware that women our age appreciate manners, abhor cockiness, and can detect B.S. a mile away.
Good luck! ;)
Posted by: nicole | 02/12/2010 at 12:40 AM
i have to remind everyone that younger men are not fully developed as adults they may appear confident but have a long way to learn about life. the older women has lived her life and has different expectations, the realtionship is only short term and long term it would not work out its only a novelty thing for yopunger men. the older woman wants more than that a comittment and young men dont want comittment all what they want is freedom and no responsibility
Posted by: rod | 02/13/2010 at 04:50 AM
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Posted by: Aiden | 02/17/2010 at 07:39 AM
Also, just because a guy is younger than you, do not underestimate him. Guys today are more savvy and sophisticated at a very young age.
Posted by: hot cougars | 03/09/2010 at 03:21 AM
What's not to like about younger men? They are usually in good shape, younger, more energetic (especially in bed) and is looking to gain your (you being the cougar) approval and confidence.
Cougar relationships do not have to be short term either. I've been in long term relationships with a much younger guy and that worked out lovely for the both of us.
Posted by: Jane@Cougar Dating | 03/09/2010 at 03:24 AM
What a great article.. I sincerely wish more men would read this and understand. So many think they can just swoop in and say what ever they wish and get their way. The "hey baby" pick up line doesn't work with a cougar, at least not this cougar.. Thanks so much for this. I think I'm going to print it up and make every guy I meet read it .. LOL.
Posted by: Jadae | 03/18/2010 at 06:45 PM
One of my goals is to find myself a good cougar.....Its been a fantasy ever since I was even younger, back in high school year.
Posted by: Bruno | 04/12/2010 at 07:43 AM
I love younger men. I have dated only men at least 5 years younger and as much as 10 years younger than me for many years. I love the energy and a nice tight bod. Older men just aren't the same, different mentality. I seem to have more in common with younger guys. They're actually more fun and are usually more interested in me. I'm flattered. I think younger men like cougars because they have no agenda, don't usually want to get married and are usually very independent and don't need a man to take care of them.
Posted by: Lisa green | 04/14/2010 at 04:46 AM
I'm 26 years old. Looking for a Cougar. yalays@hotmail.com
Posted by: louis | 04/20/2010 at 07:17 AM
Looking for a cougar closer to Winchester, VA. Quid pro quo based on mutual needs. Willing to keep this whole thing discreet. I'm a good looking guy with a gf, its just that lately I'm getting a hard on for older women and I just can't seem to let it go. I need this. Email me davidsenfield@yahoo.com
Posted by: David | 04/20/2010 at 10:39 PM
Can a cougar be the best lover for a youg men?
Posted by: Milo | 04/22/2010 at 12:48 AM
Is their any cougar that wants to date me?
Posted by: milo | 04/22/2010 at 01:02 AM
hi pls i need a cougar lady. am raphael dey should contact me on raphyrulz4good@yahoo.com
Posted by: Raphael | 06/01/2010 at 07:11 PM
I would say dating an older women is great not only because she is your lover but she would also have that motherly instinct with you as well and be able to comfort you like a younger women may not be able to.Plus there would be no games like their could be with younger women.Also their sexual experience is invaluable in bed trust me and they tend to be secure and set in their lives.Just my opinion but an older women is great and that's nothing against younger women.
Posted by: Don Green | 06/10/2010 at 03:34 AM
Hmmm. I have been considering older women since they are more mature and more experienced, in all facets of life. Young women tend to not know what they want or where to go....yet. I know a cougar, well she isn't really a cougar, I don't think...but she is WAYYYY older than me...56. I chat with her online, from time to time and flirt with her just for fun, she likes it. I am only 25, I think she is a LITTLE too old for me. She is italian and doesn't look like she aged one bit!! I'm sure she like younger boys....LOL. I wish I could marry her, in heaven perhaps......
Posted by: Travis | 06/10/2010 at 09:53 AM
Good article.. I'm a 23 yr old who is looking to date Mature women and so far I haven't had any luck. Does anyone know where I can go find them ??? I've seen so many hot older women out there but how do I know they are looking or are into dating younger men?? I live in San Diego so can please any one help me..
Posted by: Omar | 06/10/2010 at 09:54 AM
Im black and African, I reside in Malaysia. I hope I could find me a cougar. I'll rock your world. HOLLA AT deji_thompson@hotmail.com.
Posted by: naijaman | 06/24/2010 at 12:00 AM
I couldn't help but stumble onto the cougar website, and I must say - I love it! I just wanted to turn you on to this song - it's by this great band from here in Chicago called Thunderwing, who have been featured in many magazines as well as have shared the stage with many famous major bands. The song is called "Cougar In A Jaguar" and can be heard here : www.myspace.com/thunderwing . It's in the music player - all you have to do is click on it. There is also a video in production for the song right now but it's not completed yet. Either way - the song is really fun, so check it out!
Posted by: Dave Hanson | 06/25/2010 at 01:55 PM
I am 18 years old and I act mature for my age but I still know how to have a good time and this article really helps I feel confident to talk to older woman now.
Posted by: Roger | 07/15/2010 at 05:23 AM
"I'm 22 years old guy from
Newbury Park & Thousand Oaks CA.
"I'm searching for a Cougar who's local
where I live or close by, between the
ages of 39-45 years old ? "
Posted by: Kevin Karcher | 08/04/2010 at 03:17 AM
any cougars interested email me at monctontalent@hotmail.com... im 24 from Moncton, NB Canada
Posted by: Chris | 08/09/2010 at 10:23 PM
i am a man that love to have relationship with the cougar i really like to have love with them and be love i like the way they threated ther special someone
Posted by: jake | 08/12/2010 at 03:26 AM
i am 28 years old im looking an older woman to lave and be my partner my email is jaka_sss@yahoo.com contact me anytime
Posted by: jake | 08/12/2010 at 03:29 AM
im am 28 years old male im looking a cougar that love to have a relationship with the filipino my email jaka_sss@yahoo.com
Posted by: jake | 08/12/2010 at 03:36 AM
I want an older experience woman to make my life complete... Also
I want to improve my social-communicational-skills, there is why I want to have Lifetime relationships with person who will be my Leader (teacher, mentor) and simultaneously willing to searching & bringing a clients for my Freelance service (translating, consulting, guiding, DIY– service, housekeeping, marketing researches & so on).
I want to communicate with Lady-person who will like me despite of my submissive behavior. And for me there is no matter how terrible or ugly she may seems for others people, mainly: she must be at least a little wiser than me also she must to enjoy communication with me, and she must finding clients for my freelance service & provide a simple shelter for me, and talking with me regulary.
I am: June 19, 1982 Year date of birth, blond haired & blue eyed
angel, 171sm (5' foots +7" inches), 67 kilo, love to SWIMMING, Skis, Badminton.
Two University qualifications: Engineer & Travel Manager.
Doing Freelance Service for a living & helping people.
Feel free to contact me at my name (andreishaiko) a t yewaho o dot com...
I am not a member so please contact me at my name (andreishaiko) a t yewaho o dot com...
I see it sounds a little strange, and I asking you to take it serious.
I offering you to be your personal animal which caring of you, preparing breakfast, lunch, dinner, supper and cleaning and fixing & installing all what you like.
PS: I can be your faithful pet. I prefer to eat a simple food & drinking clean water. I may cost you just: 55 liters of simple drinking water, 3 kilogram of buckwheat, 3 kilo of kidney beans, 3 kilo of oatmeal, 3 kilo of millet, 3 kilo of barley & 30 liters of milk per month. (Of course, I will be happy to receiving some fruits & vegetables as the bonuses for submissive behavior.) I may to wearing used clothes & use used things. So count all this items & answer to yourself: "Can I afford to have such home-Dog?"
PS: my Skype name is: andreishaiko
Posted by: Andrei | 08/16/2010 at 10:34 AM
Andreishaiko....you my friend are down right pathetic. Im sorry but if you think that bullshit you posted..being someones house dog??? Stating amounts of water and food you would require them to supply you with?? Do you really think that any woman would want someone like that. That describes himself as an animal. That is just ridiculous man. I feel sorry for you really, there isnt a woman alive that is going to go for the horse shit you are spewing in your comment. Get some new material guy.
Posted by: James | 08/20/2010 at 03:10 AM
LOOKING FOR A COUGAR IN SAN ANTONIO TX
TO HAVE A GOOD TIME AND CUDDLE!
Posted by: tony | 08/21/2010 at 01:44 AM
Hi everybody cougars and young men, I have been in relationships with cougars all of my life and now I'm 53 and still love to have a relationship with a cougar, believe it or not they kept me young and if I have to do it again I will do the same thing all over again.
Looking for a cougar in Woodbridge, VA area.
Posted by: Michael | 08/22/2010 at 05:02 AM
after reading,feeling elated,right now i need a cougar to complete lifes deficiency.
Posted by: yadav | 09/25/2010 at 01:42 PM
i am 29 years old looking an older woman to lave and be my partner my email is kusistephen50@yahoo.com contact me anytime
Posted by: stepehen | 09/29/2010 at 03:59 AM
This message is for Lori and the rest of you 40-something women who think these 20-something (boys) are such great-hot-things.It'so obvious that alot of you just haven't been in the right relationship with men your own age. If any of you really were into the right relationship with someone your own age, emotionally, physically, and intellectually...because to be on the same wavelength emotionally, is a turn-on, and the guy doesn't have to be 20! Most of this "cougar" shit is all about sex and appearance. A 20-something guy hasn't the slightest clue what makes a woman in their mid-to late 30's or 40's tick. NO CLUE! They could care less about her getting an orgasim, as long as they get theirs! And most importantly, what could they ever have in common besides sex??! NOTHING!! It's novelty plain & simple. Nothing more,nothing less. If a "cougar" was in the right relationship with the right guy her own age, this "cougar" shit wouldn't even exist. It's all about a man feeling confident enough about themselves and their ability to make a woman feel like a woman. As long as he can do that, it doesn't take some 20-something kid who doesn't know their ass from their face to make a woman feel good!! But your a woman who's into dating children then more power to you. But I believe that a real woman doesn't need a kid to have a fulfiling, emotionally enhancing experience with a "real man."
Posted by: JT | 10/05/2010 at 05:27 AM
This is too funny! Im 12 yrs older than my current "boy toy" and although its great fun... I dont always get enough attention- dont know if its him playing COD or what!! But I will keep him around until somebody better comes along. Good luck out there... if it makes you happy- it cant be too bad ;)
Posted by: crissy | 10/06/2010 at 12:35 AM
I am a 48 yr old divorced man looking for a relationship with a good women. I like the outdoors like going out to dinner pretty much open to anything,
Posted by: Eddie De Angelo | 10/09/2010 at 04:05 PM
hello im a 22 yr old guy and well i befriended this older 35 year old woman in my night classes at college...i think shes into me cuz shes always smiling and laughing and gets shy when i look at her at times...she asked me for my info and gives me rides home and we study sometimes..im also attracted to her, shes not bad looking and she seems like she knows how to have fun but hasnt done so in a while...i think this article has some real key pointers and i might just take that next step!
Posted by: Sinner | 10/22/2010 at 08:25 PM
I'm lookin for a beautiful mature women to have wild hot sexy I'm 30 years old that has a 8" long and 2"inchs thick more then enough fun so hit me up at bennienevings@gmail.com must be decret.
Posted by: 1bennie | 11/26/2010 at 03:05 PM
I urgently need a woman to take care of me and i promise to take her to another level of love making
Posted by: Ken kamau | 02/01/2011 at 04:41 PM
Hello
Im looking for sexy older mature woman who ready for a young black 22 years of age n can basically handle everything i have to offer > If ur interested hit me up at tisdale_terrell@yahoo.com
Posted by: Tizzy | 02/08/2011 at 12:56 PM
HI, GREAT ARTICLE, THANKS.I'M A 37 YEARS OLD MALE LATINO IF ANY COUGAR INTEREST IT, PLEASE FEEL FREE TO E MAIL ME AT YOJOSE100@AOL.COM NOW I KNOW WHAT I WANT IN LIFE.
Posted by: JOSE M. | 02/20/2011 at 05:47 AM
I am the reluctant cougar, actually until now I was not even admitting it to myself, until I read this article!.. I am divorced and I was married to a man the same age as me and am divorced. I dated a man 12 years younger and one even 23 years younger and another 15 years younger;..most of the time I am busy trying to push them away, I would much rather find a man close to my age that was young at heart and had a full head of hair! I look about 28-30; which doesn't help matters either; I can not find someone like me so I tend to find more in common with younger men; but ultimately, it does not work with men in there 20's and women in their 40's..I think a 10 year gap is more realistic for long term goals..actually I have decided to boycott younger men all together; but find men my own age excrucitatingly boring and insecure; clinging on to their status and money thinking it can replace testostorone, charm and taking care of their bodies..
Posted by: molly | 02/20/2011 at 06:49 PM
Hey, looking for a cougar in Irvine CA or anywhere around Orange County. If your interested in getting to know one another, email me at AntonyLeonHedge@aol.com :)
Posted by: Ryan | 03/07/2011 at 09:36 AM
I'm a researcher at Columbia University doing a study on the cougar phenomenon. I'm looking for women who live and/or work in the New York City metropolitan area who identify as "cougars" and might be willing to let me interview them for this project. We could set up a time and interview location that works best for you, and you would be compensated $20 for your trouble. The interview would last approximately one hour. If this is something you might be willing to consider, please email me at djl2103@columbia.edu for more information.
Posted by: Danielle | 04/05/2011 at 06:32 PM
Am 25 years old black guy, looking for an older woman to love, pls contact me: twiteric@hotmail.com
Posted by: Eric | 04/11/2011 at 10:35 AM
i am henry and i need old woman for a good relationship, age is never a barrier, plz you can contact me at my email address, henry2009smart@yahoo.com
Posted by: henry | 04/18/2011 at 04:53 AM
I'm Manuel Bucci. I"m looking for an older woman who's satisfying, loving, caring, and well to do. Please contact me at buchmanuel@yahoo.com
Posted by: Manuel Bucci | 04/28/2011 at 09:26 AM
K, before i read this article i thought i was going going physco, i recently developed this thing for women older than me and its really happening exponentially, thanks now i know how and where to secure one...m 21 yrs z this being normal, i mean i can't even talk to a lady shrink
Posted by: dan | 05/13/2011 at 10:33 PM
I am nice male I am intrested a cougar women for sex
e-mail me
nicesexymassage@gmail.com
Posted by: sulfiziyad | 05/15/2011 at 11:47 AM
Am 19 years old phillipino, looking for an older woman to love, pls contact me: FACEBOOK elmhero9@yahoo.com
Posted by: elmer M. Pelonia | 05/17/2011 at 09:29 AM
18 year old male looking for a cougar of knowledge and adventures. If your in the so cal area email me m.maldonado@vzw.blackerry.net
I guarantee I'm not like other young men.
Posted by: Zip069 | 07/15/2011 at 12:14 AM
im 29 years old black guy, looking for an older woman to love in vancouver bc canada
email luther171@hotmail.co.uk
Posted by: Luther | 07/20/2011 at 03:02 AM
Can you scream DESPERATE!?
Posted by: Bethany | 07/29/2011 at 01:06 PM
I'm a 21 male blue eyes, half Irish mix, 5'11 athletic built. Sweet, outgoing, and funny. I'm Looking for a real woman age don't matter. If you want to know more please feel free to contact me lucky7sevin@yahoo.com I stay in fort worth
Posted by: Greg | 07/29/2011 at 06:06 PM
Well I am a young professional in a relationship. Also I am sad to say my relationship is not exactly moving in the direction I am looking for (that is to say love just isn’t enough anymore, I miss the hot passionate sex). I was called at my office by a potential client who I had about a 10 min conversation with. After 5 minutes talking somehow in the conversation she started to ask about me, not my experience in my field but what I looked like. I’m almost ashamed to admit I played along and gave her my personal number and told her I also admitted to her I am in a relationship. She calls me almost immediately after I get of work tells me she doesn’t care if I am in a relationship she only wants to have fun and get her needs meet. I agree and we have spent 3 weeks texting playful things and sending pictures. I have tried to meet her in 2 different occasions to no success. She has always canceled right before we are about to meet. I need help and some advice as to what to do. I have to say I am starting to fall for her or at least what I know of her and I have even put things on hold with my girlfriend because I don’t see things improving in my current relationship. Why won’t she meet me, is it because the pictures I am getting of her are 10 years old? What should I do? I would love to have some advise as to how to meet this woman who is 9 years older than me. How do I get it to go more to the physical side without looking like I am throwing a fit because I want to meet her in person?
Posted by: BoyToy? | 08/03/2011 at 11:12 PM
Hello im 36 year old man,who lives by himself.. Looking to have a good to time.. Love older woman.. If u over the age of 45.. Email me!
Posted by: Pdiiddy15@aol.com | 08/07/2011 at 09:48 AM
hi i am Ahmer Ansari from karachi Pakistan looking for experience lady to share my experience my email is ahmar_ansari@msn.com.....
cell #03323350179
Posted by: ahmer ansari | 08/22/2011 at 05:14 AM
25 younf black male wanna have fun with cougar.
Posted by: Rza | 08/26/2011 at 01:13 PM
I will be in Chicago from Sept 10-12....looking to take a nice mature woman out for drinks and maybe some dancing. I am a 29 yr old black male. 6'4'' and in good shape. Email me at frontman112@gmail.com
Posted by: Tom | 09/04/2011 at 12:59 AM
HEY. Im hard. HMU. PLEASE. old women fooo lifeeee.
Posted by: Peuto JONES | 09/05/2011 at 09:09 AM
I'm new to this site. But have no regrets. I've always liked younger mem.More viberant,more of a diversed conversation. Although I'm considered a cougar,I feel relieved that I'm not the only woman who believes in cougar love.
Posted by: Blackberry | 09/10/2011 at 07:26 PM
Im a woman (50) who is full of excitement in the Charlotte, NC area. Are there any young men in my area interested in meeting a young @ heart single woman? stillqueen57@aol.com. Let me make u feel like the lion!
Posted by: Blackberry | 09/10/2011 at 07:38 PM
I'm a young guy who would like to meet a hot Cougar in the Fort Lauderdale and West Palm Beach, Fl areas. I am rather inexperienced sexually and would LOVE to feel what it feels like to lose innocence to an older, mature woman--or women! I would like to meet you if you're between 35 and 49, but I am open to Cougars up into their 70s and 80s---if YOU'RE UP TO IT!!! Can you handle me? Please send me an e-mail at sextrovertsam@yahoo.com--I'll be waiting.....................................
Posted by: Sam | 09/19/2011 at 09:09 AM
I am lookng for a Brazilien lady about 50
with the name called brigitte. My email is hanskneip@gmai.com. My address is,24-2195
haywood avenue. West Vancouver.BC v7v1x4.
My phone nr is 778-2803083. I speak english.French an German. I love one witth
a nice face
Posted by: John Kneip | 10/21/2011 at 05:37 AM
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Posted by: John Kneip | 10/21/2011 at 05:41 AM
i am looking for a cougar between the ages of 35 and 55, i have never had sex before so i hope that a sexy cougar that have a high sex drive who would also breastfeed me for long hours on end. email me at hotshot1963@live.com if interested
Posted by: billy | 11/02/2011 at 11:26 AM
I'm a 50 y/o man looking for a cougar, I'm single again, but I believe I would enjoy the company of a fine woman. Someone who would enjoy my company as much as I would enjoy theirs. I am a passionate man, who can go all nite. My email is Sbrjr1961@ Yahoo.com
Posted by: Santos | 11/02/2011 at 06:51 PM
I'm an 28 year old handsome African American male, 5' 11, 185 pounds, residing in the Los Angeles area. I'm looking for a sweet, nice beautiful cougar. Send me an email and picture if interested at Sirhollywatts@yahoo.com
Posted by: Lamont | 11/06/2011 at 04:24 PM
Im a very young guy who would like to chat on MSN, with a older woman.. Add my MSN: Mike.xtube@hotmail.com (Got cam)
Posted by: Young Scandinavian | 11/10/2011 at 01:12 AM
Looking for attrctive older women
Posted by: Francisco | 11/13/2011 at 03:28 AM
Very interesting article. Im a 23 year old male and definitely love older women (mid 30s and up). I live in south Florida.
Posted by: Juan Alfonso | 11/14/2011 at 02:34 PM
Im a young handsum p.r guy....whillin to excite a older womans life lol....only if yuh can help me fix my life up....Its a long story....we coyld talk bout it over dinner or somethin....hmu on my email....pineapple380@gmail.com
Posted by: Pina | 11/15/2011 at 08:53 AM
i am a lovely and sexy boy,romantic,in nature,looking for a cougar woman that i will promise love,and am good in bed,i promise she will like to be with me after having once with him,u can call me on my cell phone,+2348034896594.i will be waiting to hear from any interested person.
Posted by: cassidy humphery | 11/19/2011 at 08:59 PM
I am new to the cougar/cub thing, but have found that a young man matches my very young-at-heart spirit. I am 57 and regularly see a 28 and 26 year old. I realize the age difference is extreme, 31 years with the youngest, but I so love their candor, fun nature, hard bodies, and energy. Of course their adventurous nature in the sack is the icing on the cupcake. I can match their energy because I am very active, in shape, and have a very young look. I consistently have guys in their 20's contact me on dating sites. This whole phenomenon still mystifies me, but I am certainly benefiting from it and will go on enjoying cubs hopefully for a long time.
Posted by: Laura Schepis | 11/23/2011 at 03:28 AM